Your Guide to a Smooth Summer Move

Whether you’re saying goodbye to your Lang apartment, settling in for another year, or getting ready to move in for the first time — summer is a time of transition, and we’re here to help make yours a smooth one.

 

If You’ve Just Moved Out…

 

Congratulations! Whether you’ve graduated or are headed to a new home, you’ve wrapped up your time at Lang — and we hope it was a great one. Now that move-out is behind you, it’s time to think about what’s next for your stuff.

  • Moving back home? Start sorting what really needs to come with you — and what doesn’t. For the items you no longer need, consider donating gently used furniture and decor to the Goodwill in Newark or posting on UD Parents Connect: Furniture Buy & Sell to find your items a second life.
  • Moving to another apartment? Think ahead about how your current belongings will fit into your new space. If you’re short on room, you might want to store items in a garage or local storage facility until you’re more settled.
  • Don’t want to move it at all? That’s valid too — now is a great time to sell or donate larger items instead of dragging them from one place to another. Again, consider donating gently used furniture and decor to the Goodwill in Newark or posting on UD Parents Connect: Furniture Buy & Sell to find your items a second life.

If You’re Staying in the Same Apartment…

 

Staying put is the ultimate moving win — but it’s still the perfect time to do a mid-year refresh, so take advantage.

  • Reorganize your space to make it more functional for your upcoming year. Clear out drawers, tidy storage areas, and rethink what you actually use.
  • Welcoming a new roommate? Make space for them now to avoid clutter later. A fresh start helps everyone feel more at home.
  • Lost a roommate? Time to reassess shared items and responsibilities. A little rebalancing now can make the months ahead smoother.

If You’re New to Lang…

 

Welcome! We’re so glad you’ll be living with us. While you’re waiting for move-in day, a little planning now can make a huge difference later.

  • Coordinate with your roommates about who’s bringing what — think kitchen gear, cleaning supplies, or living room furniture. (Trust us, you don’t need three toasters.)
  • Start a checklist of essentials and nice-to-haves. We’ll include a full list in next month’s newsletter to help you cover all the bases.
  • Make move-in plans early. Know your date, talk to your roommates about timing, and think ahead about how you’ll get your things here.

 

No matter where this summer takes you, we hope your move — big or small — sets you up for a great next chapter. And if you ever need anything from us, we’re just a phone call or email away.

Life Lessons Learned by Living with a Roommate

Living with a roommate is an experience that teaches invaluable life lessons, shaping us into more responsible and empathetic individuals. One of the first lessons is responsibility. Sharing a home means dividing household chores, splitting bills, and respecting shared spaces, fostering a sense of accountability that carries over into other areas of life. Communication becomes crucial, as effective communication can help prevent misunderstandings and promote harmony. Whether through in-person conversations, texts, or even apps like WhatsApp, adapting to each other’s communication styles helps ensure that everyone is on the same page.

Another key lesson is  respect.  This may include respecting others’ schedules and routines. Roommates often have different wake-up times and work or study habits, making it important to discuss what’s acceptable when it comes to noise and shared spaces. Respecting these differences, along with contrasting views on politics, religion, or even social habits, noise levels or cleanliness, fosters tolerance and adaptability.  Respect for each other’s habits, opinions and beliefs is crucial for maintaining a healthy relationship.

Setting clear boundaries helps avoid potential conflicts. Whether it’s organizing the fridge or respecting personal items, defining shared spaces creates a smoother living environment. But conflicts will inevitably arise, and when they do, problem solving and conflict resolution skills are put to the test. Approaching issues with empathy and using “I” statements can de-escalate tensions and open the door to meaningful discussions.

Living with a roommate also emphasizes the importance of courtesy. A heads-up about guests or being mindful of noise goes a long way in maintaining mutual respect. This experience sharpens negotiation skills, as roommates must come to agreements on bills, chores, and even the thermostat setting. It’s not all about compromise, though; it’s also about adaptability—sometimes you’ll have to adjust to unexpected changes in routines or plans.

Through these daily interactions, roommates learn empathy. Living closely with someone makes it easier to understand their ups and downs, teaching us to support one another. A simple “I’m sorry” or an expression of gratitude for the little things can make a world of difference.

Ultimately, having a roommate teaches us the value of honesty and listening. Open communication about chores, bills, or boundaries helps build trust, while active listening fosters deeper understanding and smoother compromises. These are life skills that go far beyond the walls of a shared apartment, preparing us for healthier, more cooperative relationships in the future.

At Lang Development Group, we’re proud to be a part of this journey, offering more than just a place to live during your college years. By providing comfortable, well-maintained spaces, we help create an environment where students can not only focus on their academics but also navigate the challenges of living with a roommate. These experiences teach invaluable life lessons—from responsibility and communication to empathy and problem-solving—that help shape our residents into responsible, caring adults. We’re here to support that growth, knowing that these formative years lay the foundation for future success..